Looking For Love Insurance to Avoid Heartbreak?

Posted by Susan Anderson, Psychotherapist on August 7, 2019

At one of my three-day workshops (at Breitenbush Hot Springs in Oregon – beautiful place!), one of the participants said he played the caretaker role in his relationship. He’d hoped that attending to her needs might insure that she would never want to ever leave him because he’d made himself so very valuable in her … read the full article

Category Categories: Abandonment, abandonment recovery, healing from abandonment | Tag Tags: Abandonment, beauty, breakup, caretaker, divorce, emotionally unavailable, grief, healing, heartbreak, love, mental health, relationships, selfcare, selfesteem, stability, wellness | No comments

Wanting the Unavailable

Posted by Admin on March 28, 2014

Attracted to the Unavailable: 10 Ways to Overcome this Self Sabotaging Pattern Why are we attracted to the emotionally unavailable? What can we do about it? Obviously, if we lose interest as soon as someone becomes available, that won’t work because all we’d be doing is forever chasing and never having a relationship. So how do we get … read the full article

Category Categories: Abandonment, Break Ups, Outer Child, Relationships | Tag Tags: chase, dating, emotional high, emotionally unavailable, infatuation, Insecurity, love, outer child | 4 comments