You don’t need to change something all the way to make a huge difference in your life. You don’t have to go all the way from being codependent to being non-codependent, or from low self-esteem to high self-esteem. You need only to be in the process of improving it – even if progress is slow – to make the difference that makes the difference.
The smallest improvement in your co-dependency or the slightest bump-up in your self-esteem can get you over that hump and into that relationship, job, or friendship you’ve wanted for so long. In other words, you can still be YOU – a person with many strengths and weaknesses – but an evolving you, a you that’s colored in a little bit more.
For example, Cynthia was a people-pleaser. It stemmed from low self-esteem, and went back to her old unresolved abandonment wounds – you know, those abandonment issues we all have to one extent or other.
To read the article in its entirety, visit my HuffPost blog here.
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