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CyberTheraphy is not a substitute for individuals who require professional counsel to ensure their well being and stability.

CyberTherapy can be an adjunct to psychotherapy and/or group support and can augment your self help efforts, but it cannot replace direct human contact with other human beings - the cornerstone of healing from abandonment. Healing comes through deepening your connection to others and making new significant connections that are emotionally enhancing. Survivors are encouraged to become actively engaged in psychotherapy, self-help groups, or others supportive programs. In the author's words...

"As a psychotherapist, I need face to face contact to be able to respond to the subtleties of human emotions expressed through body language and nuance. It is the connection with feelings that allows me to get underneath my client's needs, strengths and goals to be able to support significant growth. Feelings can be easily masked in e-mail responses and telephone calls, greatly limiting the process."