Has it ever occurred to you that love may be staring you in the face, but you just can’t recognize it? Maybe the person is too easily taken for granted, too available, doesn’t push your old insecurity buttons. Or maybe s/he doesn’t match up to some antiquated high school ideal about what a good catch is.
Some people have been hurt so many times that they’ve come to confuse insecurity with love. They get drawn to the hard-to-get and become addicted to the love chemicals of conquest. People with this pattern are called abandoholics. They are attracted to the unavailable; when someone wants to be with them, they become bored and lose interest.
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